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What are the basics of gender identity?

It’s important to remember that gender identity and gender expression are different concepts. A child’s gender identity doesn’t always lead to a certain gender expression. And a child’s gender expression doesn’t always point to the child’s gender identity.

Is my child transgender?

  • Certain bathroom behavior, such as a girl insisting on standing up to urinate
  • An aversion to wearing the bathing suit of the child’s sex assigned at birth
  • A preference for underwear typically worn by a different sex
  • A strong desire to play with toys typically assigned to a different sex

Interested in learning more about how you can support your child with their gender identity? Check out this presentation about gender and sexuality for the modern parent.

How can I support a transgender child or a child who doesn’t conform to assigned sex at birth?

  • Allow your child to express gender in public or at family activities. It’s important to do this even if it makes you or someone else uncomfortable.
  • Give your child access to gender-diverse friends, activities or resources.
  • Don’t assume your child’s gender expression is a form of rebellion or defiance.
  • Don’t try to shame or punish your child for gender expression
  • Don’t allow others in your family to belittle or ridicule your child’s gender expression. Understand that experiencing discrimination isn’t your child’s fault.
Source: The Mayo Clinic | Children and Gender Identity: Supporting Your Child, https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/childrens-health/in-depth/children-and-gender-identity/art-20266811 | © 1998-2024 Mayo Foundation for Medical Education and Research (MFMER)

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