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Teenagers face a variety of stresses. Whatever the cause, starting down the road to adulthood has its own special challenges.
You can help your teen by learning to recognize the signs of stress and teaching your child healthy ways to deal with it.
Causes of Teen Stress
Common sources of teen stress include:
- Worrying about schoolwork or grades
- Juggling responsibilities, such as school and work or sports
- Having problems with friends, bullying, or peer group pressures
- Becoming sexually active or feeling pressure to do so
- Changing schools, moving, or dealing with housing problems or homelessness
- Having negative thoughts about themselves
- Going through body changes, in both boys and girls
- Seeing their parents go through a divorce or separation
- Having financial problems in the family
- Living in an unsafe home or neighborhood
- Figuring out what to do after high school
- Getting into college
As a parent, it is hard to see your child under stress. But try to resist solving your teen’s problems. Instead, work together to brainstorm solutions and let your teen come up with ideas.
Learn to Recognize Stress
Learn to recognize signs of stress in your teen. Take notice if your teen:
- Acts angry or irritable
- Cries often or seems teary
- Withdraws from activities and people
- Has trouble sleeping or sleeps too much
- Seems overly worried
- Eats too much or not enough
- Complains of headaches or stomachaches
- Seems tired or has no energy
- Uses drugs or alcohol
How You Can Help
If you think your teen is under too much stress, you can help them learn to manage it. Here are some tips.
Spend time together
Try to spend some time alone with your teen each week. Even if your teen does not accept, they will notice that you offered. Get involved by managing or coaching their sports team, or by taking part in school activities. Or, simply attend games, concerts, or plays he or she is involved with.
Learn to listen
Listen openly to your teen’s concerns and feelings, and share positive thoughts. Ask questions, but do not interpret or jump in with advice unless you are asked. This type of open communication may make your teen more willing to discuss their stress with you.
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Be a role model
Whether you know it or not, your teen looks to you as a model for healthy behavior. Do your best to keep your own stress under control and manage it in healthy ways.
Get your teen moving
Get your teen moving. Getting regular exercise is one of the best ways to beat stress, for both adults and teens. Encourage your teens to find an exercise they enjoy, whether it is team sports or other activities like yoga, wall climbing, swimming, dancing, or hiking. You might even suggest trying a new activity together.
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Keep an eye on sleep
Teens need plenty of shut-eye. Not getting enough sleep makes it harder to manage stress. Try to make sure your teen gets at least 8 hours of sleep a night. This can be a challenge between school hours and homework. One way to help is by limiting screen time, both TV and computer, in the evening before bed.
Teach work management skills
Teach your teen some basic ways to manage tasks, such as making lists or breaking larger tasks into smaller ones and doing one piece at a time.
Do not try to solve your teenager’s problems
As a parent, it is hard to see your child under stress. But try to resist solving your teen’s problems. Instead, work together to brainstorm solutions and let your teen come up with ideas. Using this approach helps teens learn to tackle stressful situations on their own.
Stock up on healthy foods
Like many adults, teens often reach for unhealthy snacks when they are under stress. To help them resist the urge, fill your fridge and cabinets with veggies, fruits, whole grains, and lean proteins. Skip the sodas and high-calorie, sugary snacks.
Create family rituals
Family routines can be comforting for your teen during stressful times. Having a family dinner or movie night can help relieve the stress of the day and give you a chance to connect.
Do not demand perfection
None of us does everything perfectly. Expecting perfection from your teen is unrealistic and just adds stress.
Excerpted from “Help Your Teen Cope with Stress” from Medline Plus medical encyclopedia. Read the full article online.