by Cindy Lopez, Director of Community Engagement
Is your child struggling with the same behavior challenges in school without making progress? Does he or she have ADHD-like symptoms?
You’ve just received a report from the teacher saying that Derrick had another bad week – he was too distracted to complete his work, he constantly interrupted the teacher, and he continues to bug the kids around him. You’ve talked to the teacher until you’re blue in the face and time outs just aren’t effective. What do you do?
Take a deep breath, and remember that he is not doing this on purpose. He wants to do the right thing, but sometimes has great difficulty doing it. Children with signs of ADHD often have issues with things like organization and planning, completing tasks and controlling impulses–sometimes referred to as executive function tasks.
How you can help
Educate the teacher about your child’s needs. Ask the teacher to make modifications to help build his executive function skills.
A balance between structure and choice would help a child like Derrick. For example, a posted, daily class schedule that creates a routine helps him know what to expect. He also needs an environment flexible enough to provide opportunities to develop his strengths. When he’s given an assignment to write a journal entry, he’ll have better success if he’s given options to express himself by drawing a picture, creating a song, or recording a video clip.
This self-directed flexibility builds self-confidence and helps a child enjoy learning instead of forcing him into a one-size fits all mold.
Cindy Lopez has worked in K-12 education for about 30 years – as a teacher, an administrator, in public and private schools – most recently focused on kids who learn differently. Cindy believes that each one of us is different and different is good.
If your child is struggling in school, CHC is here to help. Care Coordinators can arrange a free Care Consultation so you can explore options with an expert. We invite you to call or email our Care Coordinators at 650.688.3625 or careteam@chconline.org to set up an initial Parent Consultation appointment.
